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The STAUROS READING ROOM LIST
Hope, Suffering, Healing, Compassion

2009-2010 (August 1, 2009)

Deacon Don's & Reader's Suggestions

 

  

Man's Search for Meaning has riveted generations of readers with its descriptions of life in Nazi death camps and its lessons for spiritual survival. Between 1942 and 1945 psychiatrist Viktor Frankl labored in four different camps, including Auschwitz, while his parents, brother, and pregnant wife perished. Based on his own experience and the stories of his many patients, Frankl argues that we cannot avoid suffering but we can choose how to cope with it, find meaning in it, and move forward with renewed purpose. Frankl's theory—known as logotherapy, from the Greek word logos ("meaning")—holds that our primary drive in life is not pleasure, as Freud maintained, but the discovery and pursuit of what we personally find meaningful. "What man actually needs," Frankl writes, "is not a tensionless state but rather the striving and struggling for a worthwhile goal, a freely chosen task . . . the call of a potential meaning waiting to be fulfilled by him." 

In the decades since its first publication in 1959, Man's Search for Meaning has become a classic, with more than twelve million copies in print around the world. A 1991 Library of Congress survey that asked readers to name a "book that made a difference in your life" found Man's Search for Meaning among the ten most influential books in America. At once a memoir, a meditation, a treatise, and a history, it continues to inspire us all to find significance in the very act of living. 

More Details – Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E Frankl, June 2006, 165 pages, Publisher: Beacon Press 

ISBN: 0807014273, 9780807014271 

http://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/0807014273

   

When Harold Kushner’s three-year-old son was diagnosed with a degenerative disease and that he would only live until his early teens, he was faced with one of life’s most difficult questions: Why, God? Years later, Rabbi Kushner wrote this straightforward, elegant contemplation of the doubts and fears that arise when tragedy strikes. Kushner shares his wisdom as a rabbi, a parent, a reader, and a human being. Often imitated but never superseded, When Bad Things Happen to Good People is a classic that offers clear thinking and consolation in times of sorrow. 
Since its original publication in 1981, When Bad Things Happen to Good People has brought solace and hope to millions of readers and its author has become a nationally known spiritual leader. 

More Details – When Bad Things Happen to Good People by Harold S. Kushner, August 2004, 176 pages, Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group 

ISBN: 9781400034727 

http://www.amazon.com/When-Things-Happen-Good-People/dp/1400034728

   

Why must we suffer? 

"If God is good and all-powerful, why does he allow his creatures to suffer pain?" And what of the suffering of animals, who neither deserve pain nor can be improved by it? The greatest Christian thinker of our time sets out to disentangle this knotty issue. With his signature wealth of compassion and insight, C. S. Lewis offers answers to these crucial questions and shares his hope and wisdom to help heal a world hungering for a true understanding of human nature. 

More Details – The Problem of Pain by C. S. Lewis, February 2001, 176 pages, HarperCollins Publishers 

ISBN: 9780060652968 

http://www.amazon.com/Problem-Pain-C-S-Lewis/dp/0060652969
   

Making sense of Jesus' suffering, death, and resurrection may be the most difficult and necessary task facing any Christian, not only during Lent, but throughout the year. Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a German Lutheran pastor who was executed by the Nazis in 1945, constantly wrote about these themes, and made better sense of them for 20th-century Christians than almost anyone else. Meditations on the Cross, edited by Manfred Weber, collects his letters and sermons on the vexing topic of Christ's Passion. Each chapter is brief, focused, uplifting, and devastating, like any good devotional should be. 

More Details – Meditations on the Cross by Dietrich Bonhoeffer, 1998, 128 pages, Publisher: Westminster John Knox Press 

ISBN: 0664257550, 9780664257552

http://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Cross-Dietrich-Bonhoeffer/dp/0664257550

   

 

Why does a loving God allow us to suffer? Did we do something to deserve our suffering?  Does our pain serve any purpose in God's plan?

Suffering doesn't work like we think it should, striking down the wicked and sparing the righteous. And none of us, regardless of our age, I.Q., religion, or wealth, can avoid its sting. 

Now for the first time, the spiritual wisdom of the modern world's most beloved Pope - and the rich theology of suffering articulated in his apostolic letter, Salvifici Doloris - is applied to the most pressing challenge of faith -the problem of suffering. 

The world witnessed the dignity and grace that characterized his exterior dealings with pain, now let the Holy Father's words teach you about the interior aspects of suffering: how it can be your own vocation within God's plan of salvation. 

About the Author:  Robert G. Schroeder's own search for the meaning of suffering has been a life-long pursuit inspired by his encounters with pain as a person of faith. He holds a master's degree in theology from Holy Apostles College and Seminary and has also studied theology at Franciscan University of Steubenville and the University of Dayton.  

More Details - John Paul II and the Meaning of Suffering- Lessons from a Spiritual Master by Robert G. Schroeder, March 2008, 196 Pages, Publisher: Our Sunday Visitor, Publishing Division 

ISBN:1592763146, 9781592763146 

http://www.amazon.com/John-Paul-Meaning-Suffering-Spiritual/dp/1592763146/ref=dp_return_1?ie=UTF8&n=283155&s=books - #

   

Winner of the Gold Medallion Award and an inspirational best-seller for over twenty years, Where is God When it Hurts? Has been revised and updated by the author to explore the many important issues that have arisen during that time. Sensitive and caring, this unique book discusses pain--physical, emotional, and spiritual--and helps us understand why we suffer from it and how to cope with our own and that of others. Using examples from the Bible as well as the author's personal experiences, this expanded edition speaks to everyone for whom life sometimes doesn't make sense. Philip Yancey can help us discover how to reach out to someone in pain even when we don't know what to say. It shows us how we can learn to accept without blame, anger, or fear that which we cannot understand. 

More Details - Where is God when it hurts? By Philip Yancey, 1997, 304 pages, Zondervan Publishing House 

ISBN: 0310214378 

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0310214378
   

The Wounded Healer is a hope-filled and profoundly simple book that speaks directly to those men and women who want to be of service in their church or community, but have found the traditional ways often threatening and ineffective. In this book, Henri Nouwen combines creative case studies of ministry with stories from diverse cultures and religious traditions in preparing a new model for ministry. Weaving keen cultural analysis with his psychological and religious insights, Nouwen has come up with a balanced and creative theology of service that begins with the realization of fundamental woundedness in human nature. Emphasizing that which is in humanity common to both minister and believer, this woundedness can serve as a source of strength and healing when counseling others. Nouwen proceeds to develop his approach to ministry with an analysis of sufferings -- a suffering world, a suffering generation, a suffering person, and a suffering minister. It is his contention that ministers are called to recognize the sufferings of their time in their own hearts and make that recognition the starting point of their service. For Nouwen, ministers must be willing to go beyond their professional role and leave themselves open as fellow human beings with the same wounds and suffering -- in the image of Christ. In other words, we heal from our own wounds. Filled with examples from everyday experience, The Wounded Healer is a thoughtful and insightful guide that will be welcomed by anyone engaged in the service of others. 

More Details – The wounded Healer by Henry J. Nouwen, 1979, 100 pages, Publisher: The Doubleday Religious Publishing Group 

ISBN: 9780385148030 

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0385148038

   

Peter Kreeft observes that our world is full of billions of normal lives which have touched by apparently pointless and random suffering. He then records the results of his own wrestling match with God as he struggles to make sense out of this pain. 

More Deatails – Making Sense Out Of Suffering by Peter Kreeft, May 1986,184 pages, Publisher: Servant Ministries

 ISBN: 9780892832194

 http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0892832193

 

   

The ancient story of Job that grapples with the question of why there is suffering in the world even for those who lead a good and upright life has challenged, perplexed, and comforted readers for millennia. Here Richard Rohr shares his understanding of the book, both in its historical setting and as a most important message for today. The book speaks most strongly to those whose own world has fallen apart, but in its essence, it is a call to each reader to let go of old certitudes and goals and to place faith and trust radically in God alone. This book is a spiritual commentary and chapter-by-chapter Scripture study of the many themes that occur throughout the book. In this exploration many questions are raised as much about the reader's own life as Job's, and from this process is promised deeper understanding. In the course of the story, Job witnesses to the reality of pain, but also to gaining a new sense of joy and freedom and restoration of soul.

More Details – Job And The Mystery Of Suffering, Spiritual reflections by Richard Rohr, Jan 1996, 192 pages, Publisher: The Crossroad Publishing Co. 

ISBN: 0824517342, 9780824517342

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0824517342

   

Using Erik Erikson's eight stages of development, this book examines why people respond to pain in certain ways. It demonstrates how to accept the existence of pain and suffering in a way that encourages growth and spiritual maturity. 

More Details – Growing Through Pain And Suffering by Cornelius J. Van der Poel, May 01, 1995, 128 pages, Publisher: Twenty-Third Publications/ Bayard 

ISBN: 9780896226364, 0896226360

 http://www.amazon.com/gp/search?index=books&linkCode=qs&keywords=0896226360

   
Joan Chittister, Scarred By Struggle, Transformed by Hope (2003)

Everyone goes through times of pain and sorrow, depression and darkness, stress and suffering. It is in the necessary struggles of life, however, that we stretch our souls and gain new insights enabling us to go on. Building on the biblical story of Jacob wrestling with God and on the story of her own battle with life-changing disappointment, Sister Joan Chittister deftly explores the landscape of suffering and hope, considering along the way such wide-ranging topics as consumerism, technology, grief, the role of women in the Catholic Church, and the events of September 11, 2001. We struggle, she says, against change, isolation, darkness, fear, powerlessness, vulnerability, exhaustion, and scarring; and while these struggles sometimes seem insurmountable, we can emerge from them with the gifts of conversion, detachment, faith, courage, surrender, limitations, endurance, transformation, and (perhaps most important) hope. Each of these struggles and gifts is discussed in a chapter of its own. Meant to help readers cope with their own suffering and disappointment, "Scarred by Struggle, Transformed by Hope" is, in Chittister’s words, ban anatomy of struggle and an account of the way hope grows in us, despite our moments of darkness, regardless of our regular bouts of depression. It is an invitation to look again at the struggles of life in order that we might remember how to recognize new life in our souls the next time our hearts turn again to clay. Neither a self-help manual nor a book offering pat answers, but supremely practical and relevant, Chittister’s "Scarred by Struggle, Transformed by Hope" will richly reward those readers seeking solace in the empathic, wise, and accessible meditations of a fellow struggler.

 More Details – Scarred By Struggle, Transformed By Hope b Joan D Chittister, July 2005, 111 pages, William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company 

ISBN: 9780802829740 

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802829740

   

The last book published by Henri Nouwen before his untimely death in 1996, Can You Drink the Cup? explores the deep spiritual impact of the question Jesus asked his friends James and John. Reflecting upon the metaphor of the cup, Nouwen uses the images of holding, lifting, and drinking to articulate the basics of the spiritual life. The cup, a symbol used to celebrate a wide range of human endeavors, becomes for him an image to illustrate spiritual potential. Written with the profound insight and clarity characteristic of his numerous best-selling books, Nouwen's deeply perceptive exploration of Jesus' challenging question has the power to pierce your heart, expand your spiritual horizons, and radically change your life.

More Details – Can You Drink The Cup by Henry J M Nouwen, August 2006, 123 pages, Publisher: Ave Maria Press

 ISBN: 9781594710995

 http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1594710996

 

   
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"Every human life is made up of the light and the dark, the happy and the sad, the vital and the deadening. How you think about this rhythm of moods makes all the difference." 

From the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Care of the Soul comes the long-anticipated sequel, an uplifting and groundbreaking approach to life's darkest hours.  

Every human journey is filled with emotional tunnels: the loss of a loved one or end of a relationship, aging and illness, career disappointments or just an ongoing sense of dissatisfaction with life. Society tends to view these "dark nights" in clinical terms as obstacles to be overcome as quickly as possible. But Thomas Moore's extensive career as a psychologist and theologian has taught him that honoring these periods of fragility as periods of incubation and opportunities to delve the soul's deepest needs can provide healing and a new understanding of life's meaning.

Dark Nights of the Soul presents these metaphoric dark nights not as the enemy, but as times of transition, occasions to restore yourself, and transforming rites of passage. Moore shows specific ways to engage life more deeply through particular challenges and shares a powerful new outlook on such topics as: 

More Details – Dark Nights Of The Soul by Thomas Moore, May 2004, 368 pages, Publisher: Penguin Group (USA) 

ISBN: 9781592400676

http://www.amazon.com/gp/search?index=books&linkCode=qs&keywords=1592400671

   

How to repair body, mind and spirit through God's healing love is the subject of this practical, readable, and insightful guidebook. In material organized into four major sections, the author--an experienced physical therapist and lay catechist--offers counsel and instruction on the facets of healing that include how to recognize the need to seek help, and how to use the resources of recovery-prayer, meditation, supportive relationships, forgiveness and ministry. For all these strengths, the greatest lies in its message of hope--that with the help of a loving God, we can effect our own healing. 

More Details - Healing: Stories Of Faith, Hope, And Love by Jan Alkire, September 2003, 224 pages, Paulist Press 

ISBN: 9780809141739

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0809141736

 

 

   

The Camel Knows the Way is a candid account of an extraordinary journey that pulls the reader into an irresistible, sometimes agonizing and ultimately thrilling quest for God. Lorna Kelly's odyssey from middle-class British schoolgirl to glamorous New York Sotheby's auctioneer to volunteer in the slums of Calcutta is a trek that is sobering, inspiring and breathtakingly compelling. 

En route Kelly confronts alcoholism, divorce, a growing sense of spiritual disquiet and her own "dark night." What emerges from that spiritual thirst is a buoyant and compelling affirmation of our common humanity. 

More Details - The Camel Knows the Way: A Journey by Lorna Kelly, 2004, 279 pages, Publisher: Lorna Kelly

ISBN: 0966478622

http://www.amazon.com/gp/search?index=books&linkCode=qs&keywords=0966478606
   
The Nature of Suffering

This is a revised and expanded edition of a classic in palliative medicine, originally published in 1991. With three added chapters and a new preface summarizing our progress in the area of pain management, this is a must-have for those in palliative medicine and hospice care. 

The obligation of physicians to relieve human suffering stretches back into antiquity. But what exactly, is suffering? One patient with metastic cancer of the stomach, from which he knew he would shortly die, said he was not suffering. Another, someone who had been operated on for a minor problem--in little pain and not seemingly distressed--said that even coming into the hospital had been a source of pain and not suffering. With such varied responses to the problem of suffering, inevitable questions arise. Is it the doctor's responsibility to treat the disease or the patient? And what is the relationship between suffering and the goals of medicine? 

According to Dr. Eric Cassell, these are crucial questions, but unfortunately, have remained only queries void of adequate solutions. It is time for the sick person, Cassell believes, to be not merely an important concern for physicians but the central focus of medicine. With this in mind, Cassell argues for an understanding of what changes should be made in order to successfully treat the sick while alleviating suffering, and how to actually go about making these changes with the methods and training techniques firmly rooted in the doctor's relationship with the patient.  

More Details - Nature of Suffering and the Goals of Medicine by Eric J. Cassell, August 2002, 313 pages, Publisher: Oxford University Press

ISBN: 0195156161, 9780195156164

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0195156161

   

This beautifully written, heartfelt memoir touched a nerve among both readers and reviewers. Elizabeth Gilbert tells how she made the difficult choice to leave behind all the trappings of modern American success (marriage, house in the country, career) and find, instead, what she truly wanted from life. Setting out for a year to study three different aspects of her nature amid three different cultures, Gilbert explored the art of pleasure in Italy and the art of devotion in India, and then a balance between the two on the Indonesian island of Bali. By turns rapturous and rueful, this wise and funny author (whom "Booklist" calls a Anne Lamottas hip, yoga- practicing, footloose younger sister is poised to garner yet more adoring fans. 

More Details - Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everything across Italy, India and Indonesia by Elizabeth Gilbert, January 2007, 352 pages, Publisher: Penguin Group (USA) 

ISBN: 9780143038412

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0143038419?ie=UTF8&redirect=true

 

 

Perhaps no book in this generation has had a more profound impact on our intellectual and spiritual lives than The Road Less Traveled. With sales of more than seven million copies in the United States and Canada, and translations into more than twenty-three languages, it has made publishing history, with more than ten years on the New York Times bestseller list. Now, with a new Introduction by the author, written especially for this twenty-fifth anniversary deluxe trade paperback edition of the all-time national bestseller in its field, M. Scott Peck explains the ideas that shaped this book and that continue to influence an ever-growing audience of readers. Written in a voice that is timeless in its message of understanding, The Road Less Traveled continues to help us explore the very nature of loving relationships and leads us toward a new serenity and fullness of life. It helps us learn how to distinguish dependency from love; how to become a more sensitive parent; and ultimately how to become one's own true self. Recognizing that, as in the famous opening line of his book, "Life is difficult" and that the journey to spiritual growth is a long one, Dr. Peck never bullies his readers, but rather guides them gently through the hard and often painful process of change toward a higher level of self-understanding.

 By melding love, science, and religion into a primer on personal growth, M. Scott Peck launched his highly successful writing and lecturing career with this book. Even to this day, Peck remains at the forefront of spiritual psychology as a result of The Road Less Traveled. In the era of I'm OK, You're OK, Peck was courageous enough to suggest that "life is difficult" and personal growth is a "complex, arduous and lifelong task." His willingness to expose his own life stories as well as to share the intimate stories of his anonymous therapy clients creates a compelling and heartfelt narrative. 

More Details - The Road Less Traveled, A New Psychology Of Love, Traditional Values And Spiritual Growth by M. Scott Peck, 2003, 320 pages, Publisher: Touchstone 

ISBN: 0743243153, 9780743243155  

http://www.amazon.com/Road-Less-Traveled-25th-Anniversary/dp/0743243153 

   

The stories in We Carry Each Other are born organically through the CarePages community-- one of the world's largest social networking sites where lifestyle and health needs meet community and emotional support. These stories of everyday heroes are sure to inspire a social movement in compassionate caring toward those struggling with illness, loss, and life's difficulties, much like Random Acts of Kindness launched worldwide attention to simple acts of goodness. We Carry Each Other is a guide to finding the courage inside ourselves to open our hearts and spirits, and reach out with caring and compassion when a spouse, child, parent, friend, neighbor, or colleague needs us most. * Seventy-eight million Baby Boomers are caring for aging parents, children, and grandchildren. * We Carry Each Other is a guide to finding the courage inside ourselves to open our hears and spirits, and reach out with caring and compassion. * CarePages is a social networking tool for patients, caregivers, and friends with over 1.5 million members. It has been featured in USA Today, NBC News, UCLA Health News, and many other outlets. * A support group in book form with invaluable resources and tips.

 More Details - We Carry Each Other: Getting Through Life's Toughest Times by Eric Langshur, Mary Beth Sammons, Sharon Langshur, January 2007, 176 pages, Publisher: Red Wheel/Weiser

 ISBN: 9781573243117

 http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1573243116

   

One thing has saved her: the heaven-sent hope found only in Christ. 

If hope is scarce in your life, this special booklet will draw you--toward a fresh perspective on suffering, true scriptural encouragement, and this beloved author's hard-won insights about the goodness of God. 

In her life's journey Joni has learned to meet suffering on God's terms. She has learned that joy is for real. And most of all, she has learned that hope is the best of things when we give it a chance. This book powerfully communicates all these truths from someone who has lived them, so that you can live them too, no matter what you're going through. 

Joni Eareckson Tada knows something about hopelessness and suffering. She has been paralyzed from the neck down for most of her life. But through the grief of her life-changing injury, she has learned what hope is all about. In this brief but poignant book, she explores the divine reason for suffering, the hope that the sufferer can claim, and where that hope should be placed. Like Joni, you will learn that hope is the best of things when you give it a chance. This book was originally a chapter in John Piper's book Suffering and the Sovereignty of God. 

More Details – Hope The Best Of Things by Joni Eareckson Tada, eBook Filesize: 955.72 KB, January 29, 2009, Publisher: Crossway Books & Bibles

ISBN: 1433502194 

http://ebookstore.sony.com/ebook/joni-eareckson-tada/hope-the-best-of-things/_/R-400000000000000112794

   

With the exquisite prose and poetry that has always graced her writing, Joyce Rupp mines the multiple meanings of important images in the Bible, in order to get us through our own rough moments. Included are: the prophecy of Simeon, the flight into Egypt, Jesus lost in the temple, Mary seeing Jesus carrying the cross, Mary at the foot of the cross, Mary receiving Jesus' dead body, and Jesus being laid in the tomb. 

More Details - Your Sorrow Is My Sorrow Hope And Strength In Times Of Suffering by Joyce Rupp, Laura Sullivan, 2003, audio cassette, St. Anthony Messenger Press 

ISBN: 0867165286, 9780867165289

 http://www.choosebooks.com/displayBookDetails.do?itemId=5724568&ref=campusi

   

Why must we suffer? 

"If God is good and all-powerful, why does he allow his creatures to suffer pain?" And what of the suffering of animals, who neither deserve pain nor can be improved by it? The greatest Christian thinker of our time sets out to disentangle this knotty issue. With his signature wealth of compassion and insight, C. S. Lewis offers answers to these crucial questions and shares his hope and wisdom to help heal a world hungering for a true understanding of human nature. 

More Details - The Problem of Pain By C. S. Lewis, February 2001, 176 pages, HarperCollins Publishers

 ISBN: 9780060652968

 http://www.borders.com

  

   

Professor Hall has written a major work on an agonizing subject, at once brilliant, comprehensive, and thought provoking. In contrast to many writers who gloss over one or the other, Dr. Hall is true both to the reality of suffering and to the affirmation that God creates, sustains, and redeems. Creative is his view that certain aspects of what we call suffering -- loneliness, experience of limits, temptation, anxiety -- are necessary parts of God's good creation. These he distinguishes from suffering after the fall, the tragic dimension of life. Unique is his structure: creation-suffering as becoming the fall--suffering as a burden redemption--conquest from within. Professor Hall succeeds in moving the reader beyond the customary way of stating the problem: How can undeserved suffering coexist with a just and almighty God?  He also evaluates five popular, leading thinkers on suffering: Harold Kushner, C. S. Lewis, Diogenes Allen, George Buttrick, and Leslie Weatherhead.

More Details – God and Human Suffering: An Exercise in the Theology of the Cross by Douglas John Hall, January 1987, 224 pages, Augsburg Fortress, Publishers

 ISBN: 9780806623146

 http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0806623144

   

"The following efforts bear the title Theology of Hope, not because they set out once again to present eschatology as a separate doctrine and to compete with the well known textbooks. Rather, their aim is to show how theology can set out from hope and begin to consider its theme in an eschatological light. For this reason they inquire into the ground of the hope of Christian faith and into the responsible exercise of this hope in thought and action in the world today. The various critical discussions should not be understood as rejections and condemnations. They are necessary conversations on a common subject which is so rich that it demands continual new approaches."

 More Details - Theology of Hope: On the Ground and the Implications of a Christian Eschatology by Jurgen Moltmann, James W. Leitch (Translator), September 1993, 352 pages, Augsburg Fortress, Publishers

ISBN: 9780800628246

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0800628241

   

Each one of us at some point asks this question. The tragedy is not that life is short but that we often see only in hindsight what really matters.

In this, her first book on life and living, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross joins with David Kessler to guide us through the practical and spiritual lessons we need to learn so that we can live life to its fullest in every moment. Many years of working with the dying have shown the authors that certain lessons come up over and over again. Some of these lessons are enormously difficult to master, but even the attempts to understand them can be deeply rewarding. Here, in fourteen accessible chapters, from the Lesson of Love to the Lesson of Happiness, the authors reveal the truth about our fears, our hopes, our relationships, and, above all, about the grandness of who we really are.

About the Authors:Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, M.D., bestselling author of On Death and Dying and To Live Until We Say Good-Bye, is the recipient of more than twenty-five honorary doctorates. Her books have been translated into more than thirty languages. She now lives in the Arizona desert.

David Kessler, an end-of-life specialist and a leader in the field of hospice care, has helped hundreds of men and women, including the late Anthony Perkins and Michael Landon. His first book, The Needs of the Dying, received praise from Mother Teresa and has been translated into eleven languages. He lives in Los Angeles, California.

More Details - Life Lessons: Two Experts on Death and Dying Teach Us About the Mysteries of Life and Living by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, MD, David Kessler, November 2001, 224 pages, Publisher: Simon & Schuster Adult Publishing Group

ISBN: 9780684870755

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0684870754
   

Do people suffer only because they deserve to suffer? According to classical Christian belief, yes. John Thiel, however, insists that some people who suffer are truly innocent. Innocent suffering suggests a different way of thinking about God's presence, including how God is not directly involved in human suffering and death.

A valuable contribution to the literature of theology and ethics, combining in a fascinating way biblical, theological, pastoral, and socioethical themes. . . The study is of immense value because it identifies the modern idolatry that views suffering as absurd and devoid of meaning . . . The book is a marvelous exercise in cultural self-analysis that is preliminary to any meaningful exorcism and redirection. --Kenneth Vaux Theology Today Passionate, imaginative, learned, literary, pithy, and at every point searching, Suffering is a notable achievement, not least because it pricks the heart and conscience, making the reader share in the deep experience of suffering that lies behind its writing. --James A. Carpenter Anglican Theological Review

More Details - God, Evil, and Innocent Suffering: A Theological Reflection by John E. Theil, May 2002, 192 pages, Crossroad Publishing Company

ISBN: 9780824519285

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0824519280

   

"A valuable contribution to the literature of theology and ethics, combining in a fascinating way biblical, theological, pastoral, and socioethical themes. . . The study is of immense value because it identifies the modern idolatry that views suffering as absurd and devoid of meaning. . . The book is a marvelous exercise in cultural self-analysis that is preliminary to any meaningful exorcism and redirection."--Kenneth Vaux Theology Today

"Passionate, imaginative, learned, literary, pithy, and at every point searching, Suffering is a notable achievement, not least because it pricks the heart and conscience, making the reader share in the deep experience of suffering that lies behind its writing." --James A. Carpenter Anglican Theological Review

More Details – Suffering, by Dorothee Soelle, Everett R. Kalin (Translator)

January 1975, 188 pages, Augsburg Fortress, Publishers

ISBN: 0800618130, 978080061813

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0800618130

   

A great international bestseller, the book in which, on the eve of the millennium, Pope John Paul II brings to an accessible level the profoundest theological concerns of our lives. He goes to the heart of his personal beliefs and speaks with passion about the existence of God; about the dignity of man; about pain, suffering, and evil; about eternal life and the meaning of salvation; about hope; about the relationship of Christianity to other faiths and that of Catholicism to other branches of the Christian faith. With the humility and generosity of spirit for which he is known, John Paul II speaks directly and forthrightly to all people. His message: Be not afraid!

More Details - Crossing the Threshold of Hope by John Paul II, September 1995, 244 pages, Random House of Canada, Limited

ISBN: 0394281462, 9780394281469

http://www.amazon.com/gp/search?index=books&linkCode=qs&keywords=0394281462
   

In this, companion volume to his worldwide bestseller, Care of the Soul, Thomas Moore offers a way of living in this new and confusing century. Drawing on faiths front all over tile world, as well as from his own vast well of knowledge and personal experience, Moore shows its ]low religion can be used to embrace others, rather than exclude them. He helps its become comfortable with our doubts, and reveals a, liberating truth -- it is in the dark corners of the soul Chat trite faith is born. Intimate and provocative, Moore writes with the compassion of a parent and the wisdom of a trite teacher.

More Details - Soul's Religion: Cultivating a Profoundly Spiritual Way of Life by Thomas Moore, March 2003, 320 pages, HarperCollins Publishers

ISBN: 0060930195, 9780060930196

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The Book of Job has long been considered the most challenging and controversial text of Western religion. Its simple yet powerful story--of a good and pious man inflicted with terrible pain and suffering--raises basic questions of faith that, to this day, resonate deeply within every living soul. Now in this special Riverhead edition, Thomas Moore, the author of Care of the Soul, offers his unique perspective on one of the most central tales of the Bible. Combining Jungian theory, archetypal mythology, and modern psychology, he casts a light of new meaning and understanding upon the human condition itself--and on our own personal experience in the world today.

More details – The Book of Job by Thomas Moore, Mar 1998, 128 pages, Publisher: Riverhead Trade

ISBN: 1573226750, 9781573226752

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Dr. Ann Berger shows readers how to control their chronic pain through the pioneering and hugely successful approach that has made her one of the top pain specialists in America. An estimated 70 million Americans suffer from chronic pain, yet very few doctors know how to treat it. Ann Berger, MD, is determined to change all that. An acknowledged leader in the field of pain management and a breast cancer survivor, Dr. Berger writes with an empathy that is all too rare as she shares her groundbreaking approach to healing any kind of chronic pain.

In Healing Pain, Dr. Berger

·         helps readers better describe their pain to their doctors-improving diagnosis and treatment

·         shows how self-help efforts and spirituality can make a powerful difference in pain control

·         explains which prescription and over-the-counter medications relieve pain and how to take them

·         reveals the important roles that complementary therapies-like imagery, hypnosis, and acupuncture-play in managing chronic pain

·         shares stories based on hundreds of case histories of dramatic healing through unexpected routes

Dr. Berger believes that pain is a problem with a solution - if you know how to ask the right questions. Healing Pain is a compassionate guide to those often-difficult questions.

 More details - Healing Pain: The Innovative, Breakthrough Plan to Overcome Your Physical Pain and Emotional Suffering By Ann Berger, Constance DeSwaan, 2006, 237 pages, Published by Rodale Press

ISBN: 1594860122, 9781594860126

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Joy Dawson has been teaching the Bible internationally since 1970. Her missionary journeys have taken her to over 55 nations and every continent. She has taught extensively on television and radio, and her audio-and video-tapes have been distributed worldwide. The character and ways of God are the biblical basis of her penetrating teachings. for those who are tired of pat answers from isolated Bible verses on the subject of healing, Joy Dawson presents a practical, balanced perspective. In ruthless pursuit of truth on the subject of healing, this book directly addresses difficult issues such as why some people are never healed, while others who might seem less deserving are healed quickly. Numerous personal experiences and a deep probing of Scripture are combined with an unflinching examination of the biblical purposes for illness and healing.

 More details - Some of the Ways of God in Healing: How to Get Answers and Directions When You're Suffering By Joy Dawson, 1991, 144 pages, YWAM Publishing

 ISBN: 0927545144, 9780927545143

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Survive on their own isolated "island" of chronic Recrafting a Life: Solutions for Chronic Pain andof Illness directly meets this complex challenge bys have presenting a new treatment approach that creatively. By incorporates powerful Ericksonian hypnosis interventions to with effective solution-focused therapy techniques. Resource focused and rooted firmly in self-care theory, this integrative approach enables the clinician to effectively reduce physiological pain and suffering while successfully addressing the psychological issues associated with a chronic condition.

 Engaging the reader with the transformational metaphor of Robinson Crusoe , the authors describe the five stages of recrafting a life through which patients pass in the journey to transcend their chronic condition. The clinician can utilize the dynamics of this framework to construct therapeutic strategies that best fit each stage, substantially improving treatment outcomes. The rich case examples that illustrate this process are accompanied by specific hypnotic and clinical interventions.

 More details - Recrafting a Life: Solutions for Chronic Pain and Illness, by Charlie Johnson and Denise Webster, 2002, 322 pages, Publisher: Psychology Press

 ISBN: 1583913564, 9781583913567

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Pain is immediate and searing but remains a deep mystery for sufferers, their physicians, and researchers. As neuroscientific research shows, even the immediate sensation of pain is shaped by psychological state and interpretation. At the same time, many individuals and cultures find meaning, particularly religious meaning, even in chronic and inexplicable pain.

This ambitious interdisciplinary book includes not only essays but also discussions among a wide range of specialists. Neuroscientists, psychiatrists, anthropologists, musicologists, and scholars of religion examine the ways that meditation, music, prayer, and ritual can mediate pain, offer a narrative that transcends the sufferer, and give public dignity to private agony. They discuss topics as disparate as the molecular basis of pain, the controversial status of gate control theory, the possible links between the relaxation response and meditative practices in Christianity and Buddhism, and the mediation of pain and intense emotion in music, dance, and ritual. The authors conclude by pondering the place of pain in understanding--or the human failure to understand--good and evil in history.

 More details - Pain And Its Transformations: The Interface Of Biology And Culture by Sarah Coakley, Kay Kaufman Shelemay, 2007, 439 pages, Harvard University Press

 ISBN: 0674024567, 9780674024564

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Surviving multiple-AIDS related loss losing more than one loved one to AIDS has cumulative and continuous effects while stigmatization and the absence of traditionally available support systems handicap recovery. This book strives to legitimize the profound pain experienced by many survivors of AIDS. Normalizing the abnormal experience of survivors is an important coping strategy emphasized throughout.; Taking a personal look at this tragedy, the book presents the stories and experiences of survivors. It also outlines the historical context of AIDS and characteristics of multiple-AIDS related loss, and explores grieving multiple loss and the problems for survivors in both grief, adjustment, and traumatization. Other topics covered include the impact on families of origin and families of choice, self identity and existential anxiety, specific suggestions for both helping survivors and enabling them to thrive, and professional issues in treatment.

More details - Multiple AIDS-Related Loss: A Handbook For Understanding And Surviving A Perpetual Fall by David Nord, 1997, 308 pages, published by Taylor & Francis

ISBN: 1560325828, 9781560325826

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A graceful, biblical way to reclaim sanity for the home and dignity for the suffering spouse in a dysfunctional or dangerous marriage.

Thousands of conscientious believers wanting to honor the sacred vows they took before God suffer in dysfunctional, even dangerous marriages. Each and every day they must choose between the lesser of two evils: divorce without sound biblical support or a life of perpetual, unrelenting misery. Somewhere between the secular disregard for the commands of Christ and the sacred unwillingness to deal with real problems of people, there is a way.

The redemptive divorce process is designed to honor the sacredness of the union while offering practical relief for the suffering partner and tough love for the offending spouse. In some cases, it might even be the catalyst for the restoration and rebuilding of the marriage. Practical, provocative, and utterly unique, Redemptive Divorce includes a helpful guide with worksheets for implementation.

More details - Redemptive Divorce: A Biblical Process That Offers Guidance For The Suffering Partner, Healing For The Offending Spouse, And The Best Catalyst For Restoration by Mark W. Gaither - Contributor Dr Charles R Swindoll, 2008,158 pages, published by Thomas Nelson Inc.

ISBN: 078522856X, 9780785228561

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Helping and Healing looks at the ways a religious perspective shapes the healing relationship and the ethics of that relationship. Pellegrino and Thomasma seek to clarify the role of religious belief in health care by providing a moral basis for such commitment as well as a balancing role for reason. This book establishes a common ground for believers and skeptics alike in their dedication to relieve suffering by showing that helping and healing require an involvement in the religious values of patients. It clearly argues that religion provides crucial insights into medical practice and morality that cannot be ignored, even in our morally heterogeneous society. Physicians, nurses, administrators, clergy, theologians, and other health professionals and church leaders will find that this volume will help them reflect on the role of religion in the health care ministry and make a religious commitment integral to their professional lives.

More details - Helping And Healing: Religious Commitment In Health Care by Edmund D. Pellegrino, David C. Thomasma, Contributor David C. Thomasma, 1997,168 pages, Georgetown University Press

ISBN: 0878406433, 9780878406432

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Becoming Alive draws on the Winnicottian idea of transitional objects, and puts forward the argument that human beings relate to and use objects in order to generate experiences of 'being alive'.

Enlivened by case vignettes and examples drawn from wider culture, this book explores the idea that vitality has been picked up rather late in psychoanalysis, and stresses how becoming alive affects our intersubjective relationships as well as our relationship to objects.

This is an intriguing book articulating a developmental psychoanalytic account of the experience of 'being alive'. It shows the value of a variety of psychoanalytic perspectives held together in tension and emphasises the working-out of theoretical concepts that can express the experience of being alive, a process that involves reconsidering a wide range of psychoanalytic ideas.

More details - Becoming Alive: Psychoanalysis And Vitality by Ryan LaMothe, 2005, 198 pages, Psychology Press

ISBN: 1583919317, 9781583919316

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This is one of the few texts available that focuses on the human aspect of managing pain and suffering. Through personal accounts and professional studies, this collection of essays examines the impact of pain and suffering from the viewpoints of patients, family members, clergy and caregivers. The book promotes a holistic understanding of human suffering that extends beyond the scope of pain management to stress the overall importance of a fully developed patient-provider relationship. The contributors emphasize the necessity of human engagement, which is often considered as falling outside the bounds of medical treatment, as crucial to a patient's experience.

More details - Suffering by Betty Ferrell, 1996, 238 pages, Jones & Bartlett Publishers

ISBN: 086720723X, 9780867207231

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The Brunner/Mazel Mental Health Practice Under Managed Care Series addresses the major developments and changes resulting from the introduction of managed care in health care delivery. Volumes in the series enable mental health professionals to provide effective therapy to their patients while conducting and maintaining a successful practice. The series is under general editorial direction of S. Richard Sauber, Ph.D.

The various ramifications of depression have been known for some time; these include job loss, the breakup of marriage, even suicide. The ramifications of managed care on treatment are only now becoming understood. And mental health professionals find themselves caught in between -- having to treat a longstanding illness in a set amount of time.

Treatment of Depression in Managed Care integrates short-term therapy treatment of depression with the guidelines set out by managed care -- laying the foundation for effective therapeutic intervention in their presentation of assessment, diagnosis, treatment options, distinct populations, and special problems. The integrative approach facilitates flexibility, certainly vital to all mental health practitioners.

More details - Treatment Of Depression In Managed Care by Mark Mays, James W. Croake, 1997 244 pages, Psychology Press

ISBN: 0876308299, 9780876308295

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At various points in history, Taoists, Christians, and the yogis of northern India discovered and applied the principles of the body’s own healing “somas” to unlock the secrets of regeneration. Each tradition offers extraordinary examples of longevity and rejuvenation, but the techniques driving them have been hidden, transmitted only from teacher to student. Fortunately, they were preserved for the sake of mankind, and this inspiring and practical guide brings them to modern readers. The Tao of Rejuvenation is based on a simple three-part process of purification, rebalancing, and rejuvenation. Author Angelo Druda presents specific recommendations for using these steps to transform one’s diet, exercise regimen, even one’s sexuality, so that they all become powerful sources of rejuvenative energy. Case studies and clear explanations make the practices easier and more engaging. Druda has worked professionally with medicinal herbs for many years, and he incorporates their use into the process of body renewal. The Tao of Rejuvenation is a timely, authoritative guide for complementary and alternative medicine professionals; those in need of radical healing and rejuvenation; and anyone interested in enhancing their levels of health and vitality.

More details - The Tao of Rejuvenation: Fundamental Principles of Health, Longevity, and Essential Well-being By Angelo Druda, 2009, 224 pages, North Atlantic Books

ISBN: 1556437757, 9781556437755

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In his most powerful book since "What's So Amazing About Grace?" and The Jesus I Never Knew, Philip Yancey probes the very heartbeat-the most fundamental, challenging, perplexing, and deeply rewarding aspect-of our relationship with God: prayer. What is prayer? How does it work? And more importantly, does it work? In theory, prayer is the essential human act, a priceless point of contact between us and the God of the universe. In practice, prayer is often frustrating, confusing, and fraught with mystery. Prayer: Does It Make Any Difference? Is an exploration of the mysterious intersection where God and humans meet and relate. Writing as a fellow pilgrim, Yancey explores such questions as: -Is God listening? -Why should God care about me? -If God knows everything, what's the point of prayer? -Why do answers to prayer seem so inconsistent and capricious? -Why does God seem sometimes close and sometimes far away? -How can I make prayer more satisfying? "I have found that the most important purpose of prayer may be to let ourselves be loved by God," says Yancey. Prayer: Does It Make Any Difference? Encourages us to pray to God the Father who sees what lies ahead of us, knows what lies within us, and who invites us into an eternal partnership-through prayer. Also available: unabridged audio CD.

More details - Prayer: Does It Make Any Difference? by Philip Yancey, 2006, 351 pages, Published by Zondervan

ISBN: 0310271053, 9780310271055

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Have you ever heard of your inner child? Well, this is the classic book that started it all.

In 1987, Charlie Whitfield's breakthrough concept of the child within—that part of us which is truly alive, energetic, creative and fulfilled—launched the inner child movement. Healing the Child Within describes how the inner child is lost to trauma and loss, and how by recovering it, we can heal the fear, confusion and unhappiness of adult life.

Eighteen years and more than a million copies sold later, Healing the Child Within is a perennial selling classic in the field of psychology. And it is even more timely today than it was in 1987. Recent brain research, particularly on the effects of trauma on the brain of developing children, has supported Whitfield's intuitive understanding as a psychiatrist.

About HCI Recovery Classics:

HCI's recovery backlist contains some of the most important and best-selling works in the recovery field. These books are still sought after today, selling more than 100,000 copies per year. Our new line of branded books features expanded editions of our top recovery titles, new introductions, updates on pertinent recent developments in the field, and contemporary new covers and packaging.

More details - Healing The Child Within: Discovery And Recovery For Adult Children Of Dysfunctional Families Bby Charles L. Whitfield, 1987, 152 pages, published by HCI

ISBN: 0932194400, 9780932194404

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For the millions who suffer from the effects of a traumatic experience, this book offers help and hope and provides the diverse elements needed for lasting recovery. Trauma can take many forms, from the most disturbing of circumstances such as witnessing a murder or violent crime to the subtle trauma of living with the effects of abuse or alcoholism. Deep emotional wounds often seem like they will never heal, but Schiraldi has helped and witnessed survivor’s recover, grow, and find happiness. By helping people recognize the coping mechanisms and by dealing directly with the effects of a traumatic experience, there is a great reason for hope. The Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder Sourcebook is a guide for both survivors and their loved ones, helping them to see that on the other side of their pain is recovery and growth. Explains the psychic defenses that can go into effect to protect a victim from further emotional harm.  Provides information on triggers and the debilitating effects of post-traumatic stress disorder. Addresses how the healing process can begin and how fear diminishes through a variety of medic and non-medicinal treatment methods

More details - Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder Sourcebook: A Guide To Healing, Recovery, And Growth by Glenn R. Schiraldi, 2000, 446 pages, McGraw-Hill Professional

ISBN: 0737302658, 9780737302653

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Ultimate Healing shows us that by transforming our minds, especially through the development of compassion, we can eliminate the ultimate cause of all disease. In addition to relating stories of people who have recovered from disease through meditation, Lama Zopa presents practical healing meditations, including white-light healing, compassion meditation, "taking and giving," and techniques to cure depression. Ultimate Healing shows that by opening up to the truths of impermanence, interdependence, and the suffering of others, we can heal our bodies, our lives, and the world around us.

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Ultimate Healing: The Power Of Compassion by Thubten Zopa, Lama Zopa Rinpoche, Ailsa Cameron, Contributor Lillian Too, 2001, 288 pages, Wisdom Publications 

ISBN: 0861711955, 9780861711956

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Despite the recent upsurge in interest in alternative medicine and unorthodox healers, Illness and Healing Alternatives in Western Europe is the first book to focus closely on the relationship between belief, culture, and healing in the past. In essays on France, the Netherlands, Germany, Spain and England, from the sixteenth century to the present day, the contributors draw on a broad range of material, from studies of demonologists and reports of asylum doctors to church archives and oral evidence. 

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Illness And Healing Alternatives In Western Europe By Marijke Gijswijt-Hofstra, Hans de Waardt, Contributor Marijke Gijswijt-Hofstra, 1997, 272 pages, published by Routledge

 ISBN: 0415135818, 9780415135818

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This book promotes an awareness of the dimensions and complexities involved in caring for people from diverse cultural backgrounds. It examines the differences existing within North America by probing the health care system and consumers, and examples of traditional health beliefs and practices among selected populations. An emphasis on the influences of recent social, political, and demographic changes help to explore the issues and perceptions of health and illness today. Chapter topics include familial folk remedies; issues, barrier and alternatives of health care delivery; healing traditions; and the influence of demographics. For providers in all areas of practice, especially community health, long-term oncology, chronic care settings, and hospices centers.

More details - Cultural Diversity In Health & Illness by Rachel E. Spector, 2000, 349 pages, Prentice Hall Health (Original from the University of Michigan, digitized Jul 31, 2008)

ISBN: 0838515363, 9780838515365

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